Fans Say “Same!” As Nelly Korda Reveals Her Friendship Green and Red Flags—And the Internet Relates 100% To Number 3

In a refreshingly honest moment off the golf course, world-class golfer Nelly Korda recently opened up about something deeply personal—her view on friendship. During a candid chat on a lifestyle podcast, Korda didn’t hold back as she shared the traits she treasures most in a friend—and the dealbreakers that make her walk away. The conversation quickly went viral, especially when she mentioned the third item on each list. Fans everywhere flooded social media with one word: “Relatable!”

The Green Flags: Loyalty, Honesty, and Energy That Matches
When asked what makes someone a great friend, Korda shared three green flags that she says she now refuses to compromise on.

1. Loyalty:
“Someone who shows up—not just when it’s convenient,” Nelly explained. “Loyalty is everything to me. In a world that moves fast, I need people who don’t just disappear when I’m not winning.”

2. Honesty:
“Even if it stings, I respect a friend who tells me the truth,” she added. “Not everything needs sugarcoating.”

3. Matching Energy:
This was the moment that had fans cheering in agreement.
“I don’t want to feel like I’m always the one initiating, giving, or reaching out,” she said. “Friendship should feel balanced. If I’m constantly chasing someone, I’d rather walk away.”

Fans lit up the comment sections with their own experiences, saying things like, “That’s EXACTLY how I feel,” and “Matching energy is so underrated.”

The Red Flags: Competition, Gossip, and Emotional Absence
On the flip side, Nelly also shared what she’s learned to walk away from in friendships—and again, her third point sent fans into a chorus of “Same!”

1. Hidden Competition:
“Friends who subtly want to one-up you… I can’t anymore,” Nelly said. “It’s draining.”

2. Gossip:
“If someone constantly talks badly about others, I wonder what they say when I’m not around,” she said. “That’s a hard no.”

**3. Emotional Unavailability:
“People who only show up for the fun but disappear when you need support… it’s heartbreaking,” Korda admitted. “I’ve been through enough to realize that I can’t afford to surround myself with people like that.”

Fans Flood Social Media With Support
The segment resonated deeply with fans across the globe, many of whom felt Nelly had put into words what they’d long felt but couldn’t quite articulate. Her vulnerability, mixed with wisdom earned through both success and struggle, earned her even more admiration from those who look up to her not just as an athlete—but as a person navigating life with authenticity.

“She’s not just a golf champ—she’s a real one in life too,” one fan tweeted.

From the fairway to friendship, it’s clear that Nelly Korda is setting a new standard: staying true to yourself, whether the world is watching or not.